Aling Pia in Dangwa
by Jeremiah Angelo Alcala
by Jeremiah Angelo Alcala
A line on a commercial of a famous
coffee brand goes, “Para kanino ka
bumabangon?” (To whom do you rise up?). The things that we do in life are one
way or another rooted to something that drives us in going through our everyday
living. Motivation allows us to give ourselves an extra push whenever going
through an obstacle. It can be an A in
an exam for students, a gold medal for an athlete, or even dinnertime to
someone who’s hungry. But for Aling Pia, it was something different.
My first encounter in Dangwa and of Aling Pia
It was my first time going to
Dangwa, the most talked about go-to flower shop place in Metro Manila. As I was
headed towards the block wherein the famous flower shops reside, I can already
see a platoon of flowers from the outside. It seemed like a wet market with a
lot of people coming in and out. But instead of fish, and vegetables, it was
all flowers.
As I was looking for one of the
flower shop owners, I saw one that caught my attention as it had the most
numerous flowers on display. I asked an old lady, dressed in plain clothes with
a pair of dirty rubber gloves unto her hand, as to who was the owner of the
flower shop. With a giggling face she turned to me: “Eh sir, ako po ang may-ari niyan” (Sir, I am the owner of that
store.). As it turned out, I was already facing at the owner of PNGL Flower
Shop, Mrs. Pia Perez.
The start of an unexpected journey
The calm and timid 50-year old who
started out in small beginnings and had faced a lot of adversities has forged
herself into one of the most successful businesswomen in the flower shop
industry. Yet despite her success, she remains humble and true to herself as
she continues to run the business. She insists me to address her “Aling Pia”
rather than “Ma’am” or “Miss”. Without hesitation, she didn’t decline my
request to interview her. She removed her gloves and offered me a seat for us
to talk.
“Hindi ako nag-expect na magkakaroon
ako ng isang flower shop.” (I didn’t expect to run a flower shop business.) At
50 years old, she only finished high school and started as a service worker in
her hometown in Zambales. Having enough salary to feed her family, she was
already contented with their situation. But everything changed when she lost
her job after 2 years. She had to move from job to job in order to support her
family. “Mahirap humanap ng trabaho
lalong lalo na ‘pag ika’y high school graduate lang.” (It’s very hard to
find a job especially if you only finished high school.) Finally, her friend in
Manila invited her to work with her in a flower shop in Dangwa.
“Doon
ko natutunan kung paano tumakbo ng negosyo at kung paano dumiskarte.” (There
I learned how a business runs and how to be wise.) Later on, her experience in
working in a flower shop made her put up one of her own and has been running it
for almost nine years.
But running the business is a more
challenging task than setting it up in the first place. “Sa flower shop business, kailangan talaga na mautak ka.” (In the
flower shop business, you should be able to make good decisions.) There are
risks that one has to take and problems to consider. Some of these problems are
flowers that eventually wilt, customers who don’t get their orders, and the
lowest seasons of the year where the sales are at its lowest.
In a competitive market like Dangwa,
she puts her business on the map which separates her flower shop among the other
flower shops in Manila. She gets her supply of flowers from different parts in
the country like Baguio, Cebu, Butuan, and even from outside the country like
China. Aside from a rich supply, she keeps herself in sync with the latest
technology especially in advertising in order for her to popularize her
business.
At this point in her business
career, Aling Pia has no plans of expanding her business because she feels
contented with her achievement in life. Moreover, she does not want to stress
herself out even more. With a humor in her she says, “Ayoko nang ‘tong palakihin, magiging mas masakit pa ulo ko nyan” (I
don’t want to expand my business, it will only bring even more pain in my
head).
Instead of expanding, she would like
continue running the business with the way it has been. “As long as nasusuportahan ng negosyo ko ang pamilya ko, okay na ako.”
(As long as my business will continue to support my family I’m contented with
it.)
The secret of her business
As I was interviewing her, I
realized she would always talk about her family. From there, I realized that
her family has been the source of her motivation. It has been the reason why
she devoted herself into her business along with the trials and challenges that
come with it. She rises up for her family, and her family alone.
Aling Pia has four children and
three of them have finished schooling with jobs of their own. She also has two
lovely grandchildren that I myself saw. I can see her face so happy and elated
whenever she sees her grandchildren. It felt like all the hardships in life
that she had were worth it because of the happiness that her family brings.
From that moment on, Aling Pia made me realize the value of family in one’s
life. It was something that was greater than the success of her business or
more precious than any rare flower that she has.
Aling Pia is a good example to every
Filipino family. Her motivation to put food on her family’s table, send her
children to school and to keep them away from the streets resulted into success
that she never imagined. Therefore, drawing motivation from something or
someone that you love is the greatest motivation of all.
I really liked how you clearly described and explained the role of the character in this blog post. It made it have a sense of story and it adds a level of depth to the post. I also enjoyed reading the translations of filipino to English. As an American, it helps me understand your culture even more.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed how you shed light on what motivates Aling Pia. For many people family is what drives them forward and what we, as readers, can take away from this article is a refreshed appreciation for our own families and to remain greatful for all the things they've done to push us to reach greater heights.
ReplyDeleteThis is very realistic, I was happy that I was able to read this because I was able to understand their challenging life. This is a good motivation to all the people who are working here in the Philippines.
ReplyDeleteIt is interesting to know that something as simple as a flower can help you in acquiring your ambitions in life. It is also good to note that family is the best source of motivation in her life which made her do more every single day in her flower shop. As readers, it made us remember how important a family is to one's life that it can make us push our limits in everything we do so as to achieve our goals in life.
ReplyDeleteBesides Aling Pia's success story, I think one more important thing that we can draw from this article is the fact that extraordinary stories can come from ordinary people. Personally, stories like these drive me not only to live a story worth sharing but to find out the wonderful stories that surround me as well. Great job on the article! It flowed smoothly and had a sense of wonder in telling Aling Pia's story.
ReplyDeleteI appreciated how detailed you described your trip to Dangwa and your meet with Aling Pia. This helped us readers appreciate the character more. It is truly amazing to know the huge potential we all have at success, if only we choose to pursue this. Aling Pia's story is truly heartwarming.
ReplyDeleteThe prose is honest and direct to the point. For me, the most significant part of the story was when Aling Pia told you that she did not want more flower shops because it was already challenging enough. But she was still grateful, and this would motivate anyone to really do one's best and not take things for granted. Though I wanted some more in the end part, this was great!
ReplyDeleteAling Pia is such an inspiring person! She shows that with hardwork, you can achieve anything. After reading the article, I realized that sometimes, the level of education you attained doesn't dictate your capability as a person. Also, in order to survive in this life, what we all need is just to be wise and learn from our mistake. And an example of this is Aling Pia .
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Thumbs up for the author of this blog post!! He was able to not only share the inspiring life story of Aling Pia but was also able to inspire the readers through his insights and lessons learned! The story of Aling Pia and the reflection/realizations of the author was well-written and combined well. Not only were you able to bring justice to this blog post of yours but also to the life story of Aling Pia. Reading stories like this of our fellow Filipino makes me happier knowing that there are many Filipinos working for their "family and family alone." God Bless! :)
ReplyDeleteIt gave me a very vivid image to what a whole journey eded with. The descriptions capture a very nostalgic feeling digging up memories that weren't mentioned. Good job boi
ReplyDeleteAnother story of Pinoy-greatness is revealed. Life stories like this is a great inspiration for us, especially for students like me. Aling Pia may have had experienced downfalls, but she never stopped there. She stood up and soared. And all thanks to her family. Her inspiration was her "family and family alone." And that's one thing our culture is very proud of-- our being family-oriented. After reading this post, I am remembered of something my father always tells me, "Be wise and love your family." Now I understand.
ReplyDeleteI like the way the writer feature Aling Pia in her humble flower shop. I was inspired by Aling Pia's challenging life and all the more that I want to be a part of a movement that can change the lives of others in poverty. Certainly a very inspiring article. Good job!
ReplyDeleteThe author excellently accentuated the value of family in Filipino culture in his essay. Jeremiah Alcala encapsulated in "Aling Pia in Dangwa" how "love is the greatest motivation of all" by presenting to us the breadth of information that he has gathered meticulously. Beautiful Angelo...
ReplyDeleteAling Pia's story is very touching. I would like to commend the author for being able to capture the struggle that Aling Pia went through to get to the position that she has and the joy that she brings to her family and also to her buyers. Thank you Jeremiah for being able to share to us the flower that is Aling Pia! :)
ReplyDeleteThe article was well written in form and content. The story of Aling Pia touches the hearts of the readers. The hardships she faced throughout her life could be felt with empathy and so very much is her humility and love for family. All this realized and emphasized through the words of the writer.
ReplyDeleteTruly, Aling Pia is an inspiration and embodies a Filipino worker who puts into vast amounts of efforts with their family in mind. Success is not earning millions or billions but rather having a family to go home to and take care of. Working because someone relies on you would sometimes be difficult but just like Aling Pia who works and tries to do everything for her family is the best thing...
ReplyDeleteKudos to the writer. He was able to share and portray aling pia's inspiring story well. As the crisis in the Philippine economy continues to affect people's lives today, it's important to strive hard in any source of living. And to strive hard, we need not just an inspiration but a motivation as well like what happened to aling pia and her flowers
ReplyDeleteAling Pia's inspirational story is direct proof that success knows no bounds. Success could be attained by anyone with a sense of motivation and a sense for hardwork. She was not only able to start up a business on her own, but she maintained it for 9 years (and counting). And knowing she did all this, starting from scratch, warms my heart.
ReplyDeleteI find the article to be very precise and straight to the point, through the authors thorough descriptions and narratives I was successfully able to picture out not only Aling Pia's plight and struggles but also her dedication and humility.
ReplyDeleteThe writer did a very good job in constructing his essay. He proved his points finely and directly. He also did a very good job in showing the readers the importance of hardwork and family to help achieve their goal in life.
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